‘I LOVE YOU… F.A.D.’
“Whatever place does not welcome you or listen to you, leave there
and shake the dust off your feet in testimony against them.” – Mark 6:11
You can’t please everybody.
Neither can you make everybody believe in what you say or do. Not even if
you’re as charismatic and popular as Bo Sanchez. At the Kerygma Conference
2013, Bo talked about a critic who posted online an accusation so unfair that
his wife had to reply in his defense. But the guy didn’t believe her and kept
up the rant.
Bo’s calm acceptance of the
situation is my most valuable takeaway from that conference. He said, “For
people who believe, no explanation is necessary. For people who don’t, no
explanation is acceptable. I don’t hate the guy. I’ll keep loving him — but
from a distance.”
There will always be critics
in our lives, people who won’t believe us. As a writer/blogger, I’ve
encountered people who nitpick on the negative. One person, who I guess
couldn’t find anything else to criticize, even lambasted my grammar, which was
funny because he was obviously wrong.
Even the Apostles faced
rejection. As the passage above said, the best thing to do about people who
reject you is to just walk away. And say, “I love you…F.A.D. (from a
distance).” Lella M. Santiago (lellams88@gmail.com)
Reflection: Are you facing rejection and criticism? You’re in good
company. Jesus and His Apostles went through the same thing.
Lord, help me to keep on loving the people who reject and constantly
criticize me, even if I have to do it from a distance.
St. Agatha, virgin and martyr, pray for us.
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