SAVING GRACE
“Go first and be
reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift.” – Matthew 5:24
My girlfriend and I were
driving to Tagaytay one weekend to serve in a retreat. I can’t remember now
what sparked our fight but we were soon irritated at each other. Tempers rose
and we hurled hurtful words at each other. By the time we reached the venue, neither
of us wanted to budge from our seats.
And then it hit us. We
couldn’t give what we didn’t have. So we held each other’s hands and calmed
down. We humbly prayed to God for forgiveness, peace, healing and
understanding. We asked God to remain at the center of our relationship. We
reconciled and left all the hurt behind.
We got out of the car
refreshed and grateful to God. That weekend turned out to be one of the best
retreats we had ever served in. It was full of healing, anointing and ease.
I thank God for His saving
grace at that moment. He reminded us that before we begin to love and serve
others, we should love and serve our own relationships first. Didoy Lubaton (christianlubaton@yahoo.com)
Reflection: How are your relationships? Are they pleasing to God?
Lord, in my desire to love and honor You, make me remember that
giving love and honor to my brother or sister is what You want me to do.
St. Gabriel of Our Lady of Sorrows, pray for us.