DIG DEEPER
“For
in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the
measure you use, it will be measured to you.” – Matthew 7:2
Part
of my work as a magazine editor is to correct errors in grammar,
spelling and style. In other words, I look for the “wrong” in order to
make it “right.” I keep in mind the metaphor, “Don’t judge a book by its
cover” and abide by it literally. I need to read every word, sentence
and paragraph; check the graphics, photos and other details of the
magazine from cover to cover.
I realized that there are editing principles I should apply — and
others I should avoid — in my relationship with people. When I find
something wrong in a person, I should not stop there and be quick to
judge. I should dig deeper — get to know the person more —and “read”
beyond what my senses perceive. I have learned, for example, that an
overly critical person is emotionally and spiritually wounded and her
criticisms about others may be a projection of her very own faults.
Unfortunately, it’s easy to judge others by appearance and by
reputation. I need to learn to see “difficult” people with the
compassionate eyes of Jesus. After all, this is the way He looks at me.Dina Pecaña (dpecana@yahoo.com)
Reflection: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
Lord,
grant me the grace to remember that the judgment I pass on others is
the same one others will pass on me. May I see others through Your
loving eyes.
St. John Fisher, pray for us.
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